[Jeckel]

So are you on an iPod or an iPhone?! In the title, the info in the top right, and the firmware, you say it's an iPod, but later and in the pictures, it's and iPhone! Please elaborate!

Anyway, I need some more info:

-What are you doing when the device freezes? (Does it happen when using an app or at random?)
-Have you seen the files of the themes (SSHed in and looked at them)? Otherwise it's just that the file for changing the icon doesn't exist, therefore it's normal.

May just have to wait until some messages pop up or reload the springboard for that red dot to leave you.