Well since I never got what I needed, even after I paid 5.00 I am going to tell you all how to do it for FREE!!!!!
This was working perfect for me but I went to the 3G two days ago and it all stopped. Two days on the phone and nothing with AT&T. I tried this and it worked PERFECT...the lady even said it was funny how I said exactly what I wanted in their "terms" here is a audio clip of the recap of what she did...i recorded our conversation...well the last part of it...
First off, call 888.892.9760. These are tier level reps who know what they're doing. Second off, make sure you have the rep enable WAP push (There are 2 places in Snooper for them to make the change.) Next, have the rep change your iphone texting plan to a normal non-iphone text plan. (costs 5.00 more). Lastly, have them resend your ota's (over-the-air activation) and reset your vlr's (clears the registry). Power cycle your phone and you should be good to go.
Here is the audio file of our conversation
http://www.romeoz.com/picmessage.wma
Here is my new rate plan with after she updated me.
http://www.romeoz.com/rateplan.jpg